If you search how to win a lottery using one of the search engines, you will find hundreds of websites pre designed for that kind of activities. Many people use different false avatars and leave comments under videos or posts claiming that they generate a high income by applying a method in a specific website. So many spammers out there send thousands messages and they are trying to find out which type of messages can attract attention of the masses.
There is no doubt that many people out there love fast methods to achieve their goals. We come across messages like change your habits instantly, find the partner of your dreams immediately, or become wealthy overnight. Those messages might work only for those people who come up with those ideas, but not for people who follow them. The majority of the impatient people believes and pays for that kind of false messages. That makes their statements true not for the people who they promise, but for themselves.
We all might love to speed up children’s life to become adults in less than 18 years, but that is not what the natural laws support. A fast method of achieving a goal without growing and becoming the person who can handle it, might result in disappointments.
Is it good to achieve all your goals instantly?
If you read the story of many lottery winners, you realize how they easily became multi-millionaire overnight and broke in a short period. Some of them even committed suicide or they divorced and started abusing drugs. On the other hand, many rich people go bankrupt but in a short period become rich again. The reason is that they have the experience and understand how the world of making money works. The habit and the knowledge of creating what you want are far more important than achieving it fast without growing. Each failure in life is a new opportunity to learn and create supportive habits. Many successful people taught us how they experienced success and failure:
“I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” “Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up” Thomas Edison
Associate happiness with now!
We all might have similarities in how we feel and move towards our goals, but we are all unique at the same time. Our culture and parents have influenced us and taught us how to see the world around us. If we generalize and see how we can be happy then we should study different people and cultures. Some people are happy with very little, while others have not that feeling with everything.
If we can move fast towards our goals, that might result in feeling happy. However, it is difficult to create a permanent happiness if we associate it with achieving our goals. It might be wise to associate happiness with the current time or now. If you delay happiness to the future after you achieve a list of your goals, then you make that idea a habit. In every stage of life, we all have a list of challenges and dreams to achieve. If we associate our happiness with our achievement’s list, we will never reach happiness. On the other hand, if you create the habit to be happy now, that positive feeling can motivate you to achieve your dreams easier.
The list of what you want to achieve
Achieving goals without growing might lead to negative experiences. Capitalism has impact on each person’s mind without mostly being aware of that. Many people have an exact level in their minds that they deserve for a relationship. If you start a relationship with someone you think that she/he is better than you are, you will never be happy with that person. Your mind starts to remind you that you must watch her/him all the time, because the fear of losing that person would dominate your mind. Jealousy is one of the most miserable feelings a human being can have. It might be better not to have a partner at all than living with that kind of negative feelings.
On the other hand, if you think that you deserve a better partner than the one you have, that might also make you unhappy. That is the same by having a huge amount of money while a person is not ready to handle it. The time of creating what you want is necessary for every individual to grow and create new habits gradually to handle a new position. You learn a lot along the way until you achieve your goals. You would later realize how important that learning and growing to experience a new life.
People who were born in a rich family and environment are not rich because their parents have only money, but their wealth is what their parents teach them. Your conscious mind demands things instantly, but your subconscious mind is slow and runs almost 90% of your life. If you are not growing along the way to have what you want, it will be better not to have it until you are ready for it. Entrepreneurs have big responsibilities and if they do something wrong, that might cost loosing many jobs or they might even go bankrupt.
Change the causes of your results
Most people say why I have not this and that, but they do not focus on changing the causes that bring those results. If someone wants to lose weight, then he starts to follow a diet. However, many of them cannot sustain and they go back to where they were before. If you do not change your habits, the results soon or later will come back to the exact level you create them.
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Author: Sar Maroof
Education: Bachelor Science and Applied Science in Physics.
Professional Java webdeveloper as well as several certificates in different branches
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